CONCERT OF PRAYER
Pray Week 746
“A Suitable Helper”
Genesis 2:18 (ESV) Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
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In 1970 I saw for the first time a picture of the woman who would become my wife. Immediately I sensed recognition in my spirit that this woman was the part of me that was missing and that I needed to make me whole. This is what the word ‘fit’ or ‘suitable’ means from our reference Scripture. It is like looking in a mirror and recognizing the reflected image.
…God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them … But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. – Genesis 2:19
Nothing in God’s creation was found to be a suitable fit to be man’s helper except for the woman God created from the flesh of the man He had created in His own image.
If you are like me there is not a day that goes by in my married life that I have not relied upon the help of my wife. ‘Honey, where are my socks?’ ‘Have you seen my wallet?’ ‘Where are my keys?’ ‘Where are the Band-Aids?’ (Why does she always seem to know?) But beyond these little things, God has given our wives a special gift of wisdom, perspective, and insight that provides a synergistic solution when combined with our ideas and approach to solving life’s conundrums.
…husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman …since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. – 1Peter 3:7
The Greek word translated ‘in an understanding way’ is ‘gnosis’ which carries the meaning of gaining deeper knowledge through a studied, scientific approach.
Our wives tend to be non-linear where we are linear in our thinking and approach. We can, in our foolish male pride, dismiss their ideas and suggestions or we can seek to understand and gain a deeper knowledge and perhaps discover a better way to accomplish an objective.
“It is not good that the man should be alone.” God knew what He was doing then as He does now. Men, we must learn to cherish and value our wives as the great gift of God to us that she represents. This is the meaning of the phrase ‘…showing honor to the woman…’ from 1 Peter 3:7
Note the equality of men and women before God as indicated by the fact that we are joint heirs of the gift of eternal life through Jesus. Also note the admonition that our prayers would be hindered if we fail to value and honor our wives.
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her… – Eph 5:25
Jesus died for His bride, the church. We are to love our wives in a like manner. Our wives should not be the subject of jokes that ridicule them. Our wives should not live with us in fear of being abused physically or emotionally. Our wives are not ‘slaves’ in our homes. They are to be valued partners assisting us in walking the narrow path of life that follows Jesus.
May your marriage be blessed of God. May the Holy Spirit dwell in your hearts and home. May the love, peace, and joy of the presence of Almighty God be evident in your marriage.
Close in prayer, thanksgiving & dedication of your work to the glory of God