SWORD OF THE SPIRIT 1294
“Risky Behavior”
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise. – Ephesians 5:15
We all are born with a natural tendency to take risks. At an early age we test boundaries and risky behaviors peak in our youth and wane in our latter years. Every year people suffer needless injuries and even death from disobeying laws and warning signs intended for our protection.
God has also provided boundaries and laws for our protection. It is one thing to take risks with our physical well-being. It is totally another thing to risk our eternal destiny, and because of our influence, the eternal destiny of others.
How Close to the Edge? If our relationship with Jesus is more than membership in a church denomination and we are more than Christian in name only, our desire will be to remain in the light of His presence, and we will avoid the shadowy edges of life. We will hate sin as He hates sin and not toy with the gray areas.
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God; …Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. – Galatians 5:19-21; Romans 12:9
Can a man carry fire next to his chest and his clothes not be burned? Or can one walk on hot coals and his feet not be scorched? – Proverbs 6:27-28
My son, if sinners entice you, do not consent. – Proverbs 1:10
How Close to the Darkness? We all desire to be accepted by others. We are relational people and must be wise in our choice of circle of friends. Notice how we tend to pick up mannerisms, speech, and value judgements from those closest to us. Are these influences keeping us centered in the light of Christ or leading us into darkness?
Do not enter the path of the wicked, and do not walk in the way of the evil; Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals. – Proverbs 4:14; 1 Corinthians 15:33
Beloved, do not imitate evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever does evil has not seen God. Abstain from every form of evil. – 3 John 11; 1 Thessalonians 5:22
Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret. – Ephesians 5:11-12
How Much Poison? The tendency to test boundaries coupled with peer pressure and our need for acceptance can lead to deadly risky behavior – both physically and spiritually. Experimenting with alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs can take you on a fast track through gray areas into darkness.
Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So, glorify God in your body. – 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Exposure to pornography and people disposed to sexual immorality will also lead you on a path away from God.
For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure… has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore, do not become partners with them; – Ephesians 5:5-7
Flee from sexual immorality… – 1 Corinthians 6:18
For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life, to preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; – Proverbs 6:23-25
How Far Away from God? We take a serious risk when we walk away from God and take the wide path of the world that leads to destruction. Some foolishly deceive themselves thinking that they can ‘live like the devil’ now and have time to repent and be saved at their moment of death. They foolishly test the Lord and disgrace His grace.
You shall not put the Lord your God to the test… – Deuteronomy 6:16 Jesus quoted this Scripture to combat Satan’s temptation to throw Himself off a cliff so that the angels could rescue Him from injury.
Only do not rebel against the Lord… – Numbers 14:9
The Risk of Influence! When we choose risky behavior and toy with the gray and dark areas of life, we affect more than just ourselves. We are not isolated in this life. We all have circles of influence: relatives, coworkers, fellow students, spouse, children, friends, and neighbors.
What influence does our risky behavior have on others? Are we setting an example for them to be true disciples of Christ or are we setting the example of a sin compromised, watered down version of being a Christian?
And he said to his disciples, “Temptations to sin are sure to come, but woe to the one through whom they come! But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea. – Luke 17:1; Matthew 18:6
May the Holy Spirit reveal to your heart the gray and dark areas that you continue to risk being a part of your Christian walk. May your heart’s desire be to be sanctified, set apart from sin, and to remain in the light of His abiding presence.
Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually! – Psalm 105:4