CONCERT OF PRAYER

Pray Week 985

“Our Father’s Approval”

His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ Matthew 25:21 (ESV)

Never underestimate the power a father has over his children. As a child I always strived to gain my dad’s approval for what I did. This desire never left me well into adulthood.

My dad passed away in 2010 and as I reflect now upon his life I began a self-examination of how, as a father, I have treated my children. I also gained a renewed understanding and appreciation of how perfect our Father God is.

While on this earth, in this temporary life, we are to be about our Father in heaven’s business. Whatever we do, at work, at home or at play as well as within the church community, we are to do as if we are working for our Father God.

Jesus taught a parable about a Master who entrusted his servants with money management (talents) while he was away. When he returned, those who did well were promoted and rewarded with those wonderful words of approval ‘Well done’.

Our Father God is quick to affirm us and He is also quick to correct and discipline us in love. He coaches us and guides us in the proper way we are to live.

As a father, how quick are we to affirm our children and to coach them in the proper way? Would our children categorize us as always critical? Would they say that they could never measure up – never do anything right in their father’s eyes?

Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. Colossians 3:21 (ESV)

Examine your ‘fatherhood’ style in light of God’s example. It is an awesome responsibility to be a father. Although imperfect, you set the example of Father God for your children. Your life example points them to their Father in Heaven. Will you raise them up to know, love and respect Him?

Material gifts will not heal wounds or be a substitute for proper parenting. The greatest gift you can give to your children is to love the Lord your God with all your heart and soul and to love their mother as Christ loves the church.

May you reflect on your fatherhood style. May the Holy Spirit empower you to reflect Father God as a Dad to your children. May you love your wife as Christ loves the church and may you lead your children in the respect and worship of our Father in Heaven.

Happy Father’s Day!